I think Tate said it very well, above.
glad to know about Gabe Jarrett, thanks!
and on the topic of touch, polyrhythmic finesse, movement of the groove, and pocket in general.. I have to mention a kid I saw play with John Scofield once a few years ago, amazing then..
Adam Deitch...he was a kid then, now plays with Lettuce..
lots of great drummers in local bands and regional touring bands.
when you see them play it can be amazing. another is Lisa Pankratz,
with Dave Alvin.
and I'll mention too- hope he doesn't mind, but he's got great feel and plays so well for the song-
erwin, drummer for us in the IORR project..yes indeed.