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mitchflorida
At this point, Brian was prettier than Anita was.
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mitchflorida
The second was to an older married woman? Am I supposed to feel sorry for Brian for that? The third one was when he was 19. Isn't he considered an adult at 19?
How about number 4 and number 5? You didn't talk about those.
Sorry. Number 4 is Linda Lawrence's son Julian. Number 5 was put up for adoption by Dawn Malloy, born in 1965. Not trying to make excuses for him. Just statin' the facts.
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mitchflorida
At this point, Brian was prettier than Anita was.
Have to agree with you on this one mitchflorida!
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stupidguy2
Brian just deteriorated so suddenly....that's why alcohol is so much more dangerous than any other drug. The drugs played a part most definitely, but I've seen so many people just go down so quick from alcohol. Sad.
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stupidguy2
Brian just deteriorated so suddenly....that's why alcohol is so much more dangerous than any other drug. The drugs played a part most definitely, but I've seen so many people just go down so quick from alcohol. Sad.
Agreed stupidguy2! Always thought that was Brians major problem, that he became an alcoholic, at an early age too IMHO... it destroys your looks, and wreaks havoc on you and the people around you. There are so many pix with him with a drink in his hand, and almost always with a cigarette too. On top of this he had asthma.. But, the alcohol could explain lots of mood changes, and even some of the violence toward women ( if they are true), not to excuse the behavior, but may help explain it a bit, and of course tripping out on so many drugs didn't help such an emotional person such as Brian. Believe it or not, back in the sixties, alcoholism as barely recognized as a disease, or taken very seriously as a major problem. This has been a problem throughout the years to so many talented people IMHO.
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His Majesty
There's lots of comments from Charlie, Stu etc about Brian's drinking.
Brian an alcoholic? For sure he was!
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steverogan
"booze and pills and powders" have a way of catching up with people
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steverogan
"booze and pills and powders" have a way of catching up with people
It's the Anita-incident all over again in Keith's head. Jealousy, guilt and bitterness in a beautiful mix. That's why Brian is portrayed like that in Life.Quote
paulm
Read Keith's book for accounts of BJ's sadistic, spiteful behavior. This was not a nice person.
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Mathijs
I just doubt that. I haven't read much comments on this, but I read a lot of comments on his drug use. For example, Andrew Loog Oldham's books.
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ghostryder13
i never had the impression that mick and keith disliked brian but were fustrated because his drug use was hurting the band. when you're fustrated at someone you my say and do things to upset them just to let off steam. who knew he was was going to die? they were not psychic (that i know of) i think alot of keith's issues with drug abuse was internal guilt over that and taking anita away from him. i always felt that when keith stopped using heroin he left anita because he would always tempted to start up again because of the guilt.
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paulm
BJ deserves credit for being "obsessed" about the Stones (Jagger's word), and giving them the push to make it, in the beginning. So props there, and with the french horns and sitar. Beyond that, it's all Keith. Even when BJ was technically alive, Keith had to record the lead parts. Sympathy is an example. MT blew the doors off anything BJ could contribute on guitar. That's how it is for me, anyway.
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punkfloyd
First time for me to see this picture. He looks absolutely wasted. And his two mates don't seem to give a shit.
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Mathijs
I just doubt that. I haven't read much comments on this, but I read a lot of comments on his drug use. For example, Andrew Loog Oldham's books.
Mathijs
I've read many, more on drugs of course, but there's quite a number comments about his drinking from quite a number of people.
Good thing MT could not fill Brian's shoes: showing up incoherent to recording sessions, being paranoid, sadistic, abusive to women, etc. Good thing, Neptune.Quote
neptune
MT was surely was one of the greatest guitarists in rock history but he still couldn't fill Brian's shoes.
Yes, he did. But I still believe that Anita was the love of his life.Quote
paulm
I don't think so Tonterapi, Keith moved on and found love with Patty. No bitterness there, just retelling the story. If you can quote the "ones who met, lived with" etc., great, but by what I've read Dude was a pretty dark cat, and not particularly nice. Not that any of the Stones are "nice", but BJ seemed downright sadistic. But we all dig different types, so YMMV.
So you'll just continue to focus on his darker sides that has nothing to do with him as a musician? Isn't that a little too one-sided?Quote
paulm
Good thing MT could not fill Brian's shoes: showing up incoherent to recording sessions, being paranoid, sadistic, abusive to women, etc. Good thing, Neptune.
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24FPS
You don't go around callously leaving abandoned children (6) without something wrong going on in your mind. Actually he seems pretty common in his vanity and narcissism.
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Mathijs
You can't blame all that on Brian -it was common practice to have your child adopted when you where either under-aged or not married in the 50's and 60's. Abortion wasn't an option yet.
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tonterapi+1 on that Mathjis! An unwedded mother seems to have been the worst kind of citizen at that time.Quote
Mathijs
You can't blame all that on Brian -it was common practice to have your child adopted when you where either under-aged or not married in the 50's and 60's. Abortion wasn't an option yet.
Mathijs
Brian was an idiot for not pulling out in time if he had no plans on being a father. But being who he was he thought that he did the right thing when the managment told him that he didn't have to take care of his children. A little bit of money and problem solved. Young and stupid...
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24FPS
BS. Doing it once is understandable. Doing it 6 times means you are a narcissistic a-hole. A musically talented, sartorially blessed, true bluesman, a-hole.
I don't disagree with you. Keith's song writing is the back bone of the band and I don't mind that somebody prefer Taylor instead of Jones. It's just a matter of taste and Taylor was the right guy for the Stones in 69! Jones wanted out and the band wanted him out. It was the best thing for both sides to part ways.Quote
paulm
Points taken tonterapi that Lennon and others for that matter have a dark side that belies their peace & love public image. Heck even Macca had battering allegations in the past. The list goes on. I just don't romanticize these people, as some seem to.
By Jagger's account, BJ was the one who really pushed for success. Obviously, very early on, he--not Mick or Keith--was the focus of the band. I just think Keith was the artist, the composer, the real talent, not Brian. Brian was a very versatile instrumentalist. Disagree with me all you want, it's how I see it. And for me, the band went to their best level with Mick Taylor. Those are the recordings I return to time and again.
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24FPS
]BS. Doing it once is understandable. Doing it 6 times means you are a narcissistic a-hole. A musically talented, sartorially blessed, true bluesman, a-hole.