I know what you are feeling drummer dude, I lost my mum almost one year back at the age 92 (great age) but you never want to loose them .........

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I know how you feel like
lost mine 15 years ago, the following year my little brother
a year after my oldest sister.

All the best to you

So sorry to hear this Drummer Dude. It's been 5 years since mine passed and it still gets tough this time of year. But through inner strength and the love of good people and friends,we get through it. Best of luck to you.



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drummer-dude, so sorry. thanks for sharing this with us.
i lost my mom almost a year and a half ago and i miss her terribly, even though she was sick for a long time. all beams to you and your family--and hugs to you through the ether.

And you know what also it was two years 21, November 2005 that i lost my dad.

So it really hard for me and my brother and family. I forgot to mention that. Yes very rough. Mom was 78. My dad was 79 and would have made 80 on
January 1, 2006. He would be 81 now. I thank you for all the condolences.

Thanks again my friends.

drummer_ dude

Sorry for your loss.
Take care.

Drummer Dude, lost mine years ago and still haven't gotten over it - don't think you ever really do. She was more of a best friend then a mom when she died suddenly (also in December) and I sure miss her brilliant advice and long chats we always had. Oh well, what can you do, life is unfair and many times it sucks but there's no other choice but to deal with it all. Time is a healer and the passage of time is the ONLY thing that seems to help a bit. Sorry for your loss and I know EXACTLY how you feel - put on a sad song and have a good cry (did it for months myself after, it helps)...... Helter

Condolences from me too, sorry to hear about your loss.

That's really sad to hear. All the best to you.

Sending my condolences...

Your own mum is always the best in the world and I am sure she was.We never forget our mother and I am sure she is in a beautiful place now.Condolences to you and your family.

My thoughts and prayers are with you. My Mom died, 03 August 2006....still trying to deal with it.

JR

best wishes at this tough time

my condolences, all the best in this hard time.

It may not seem like it just now but time is a great healer and you'll have your many great memories of your Ma over the years.

Regards,
John The Mac.

My condolences to you and all those next to you.
take care

Very sorry to hear of your loss, DrummerDude.
My condolences.
Jordi

My sincere condolences

Alex

hang in there drummer dude.

i am sorry for the loss of your mom .my deepest sympathy for your mom .may her memory be eternal .this truly is the mystery of life.

So sorry for you loss drummer dude. Best wishes to you.

I lost my mom on June 20, 1994 at the age of 52.

Rest in peace to all the lost mommies.

my thoughts are with you. I am so sorry.

pauline, the juf

drummer_dude,

My deepest Condolences for your very big Loss

Ladykiller

thank you all for your condolences. It really is wonderful to have so many friends here. Thanks again all of you.

Take care,


drummer_dude

...so, drummer dude, do you play the drums?

My deepest condolences and my best thoughts and prayers to you and your family. I lost my mum 5 years ago. Godspeed and remember the good times!

God bless her, you and your family Drummer Dude. Hopefully Brian Jones and Ian Stewart are serenading her.

My prayers are with you Drummer Dude, my dad passed in September of this year and it's a tough thing to deal with but hang in there.

Jim

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Your mother is still alive in you. Much of your DNA is from her. So you´re still together in a way. I lost mine on my 19th birthday. The same year Lennon went. The years have made it easier. And as hard as it is to accept, it is the natural order of life. Parents should not have to bury their children. Try to take each day as it comes. Grieving is natural and the way forward. If you´re finding it too much to cope with, get help. It´s OK to ask for help. And it´s OK to cry. Good luck. What doesn´t break us, makes us stronger. Maybe without knowing it, your mother has been preparing you for the day when she´s not around. Parents are good at that. My dad is 73. I know his time will come sooner rather than later. I very recently told him not to worry about me when he is gone. Because he has equipped me well to deal with. Of course it´s going to hurt. But that´s the natural order. Take care of yourself. Your mum would want that.

sorry youve lost a parent.

i lost my mum nearly 3 years ago.

she had cancer and we knew, but we didnt think it was terminal, not till 7 weeks

before the end, it was a strange time and we had to come to terms quickly with what was happening.

what gets you through it is concentrating on your own life and family, cos thats what your parents would have done when they lost thier own parents.

i always feel that my mum is around watching me anyway and giving me advice.

its something you never really get over, you just learn to live with it a bit easier as time passes.

good luck and remember there are many who know how you feel.