Thats an interesting story about taking your 8 year old daughter to see the Stones. My concern is exactly what you stated. Drug use (although generally mild), rough language, abundant drinking, etc... these things come with the ticket price. The first Stones show I ever saw was when I was 14 and I felt LOOOONG overdue for it. My earliest childhood memory is when I was 4 years old, in my room, listening to Let It Bleed on a Fisherprice record player. I've been ready ever since, but I wouldnt have been able to appreciate the live show until around age 9 or so, IMHO. At age 14 me and my dad walked to our seats, and although I had smelled weed before (I lived in the tropics where they dont care if you smoke reefer. Its like cigarettes as long as your not in a restaurant or something.) he pointed out that smell, said it was weed and that it was common at concerts. Instead of being offended by it my dad merely pointed it out, and it was like "oh, another cool fact to learn on my first concert experience". And what better way to experience my favorite rocknroll band, the one I've been listening to since childhood, than with my father who is also a fan.
What I fail to understand is why these things, even for people who are EXTREMELY OFFENDED by drug use, would cause you to leave the show. For 1 its a Stones concert. Nothing except drunks spilling beer on you should make you want to leave the show. Secondly, your kid/s likely wont notice the smell of it unless you made it a point to mention it, or unless you've raised them in a culture where people arent criminalized for smoking a completely natural plant.
I would say that unless the "child" is around the age of puberty they shouldnt go. I've been around the families who bring their kids with them... When you have a 5 year old running around bored wanting to get get snacks its incredibly distracting and irritating. Unless the children are genuine fans, the parents simply shouldnt bring them.
I honeslty wish they would just say no children under age 10. Babies shouldnt be at concerts. SMALL children shouldnt be at concerts. 10 years old, thats cool. They're old enough. Thats just my opinion. Those of you who want to bring your 5 year old kids to the shows, just be glad I'm not incharge of promotion. I'd also make it general seating so that scalping would no longer exist.
-Drake