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OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: MadMax ()
Date: July 9, 2011 02:40

My fellow Stonesians. I'm 29 years old, into my fourth engagement now, a 35 year old beauty who I love and she's got a great understanding. BUT, and it's a BIG but, she's more spoiled than anyone I ever met! Need yer help! We've had 3 rows 3 nites in a row now, I am her guest, she lives in the middle east and she's from there, but the last couple of chicks have all been from the middle east so I know their culture well. The other ones were much more younger and more open-minded, maybe chicks tend to become like spoiled monsters into their 30's?

Appreciate your help/comments.

You're a rag trade girl, You're the queen of porn, You're the easiest lay on the white house lawn!!

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: tatters ()
Date: July 9, 2011 02:44

When dealing with women, it pays to always keep your pimp hand strong.



Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: MadMax ()
Date: July 9, 2011 03:00

Thanks Tatters! I think.... Anyone else got any slightly more diplomatic solutions...?

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: Max'sKansasCity ()
Date: July 9, 2011 03:01

Quote
MadMax
maybe chicks tend to become like spoiled monsters into their 30's?
No,
Women are like wine, they get better with age...

What do you think you should do Max?



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 2011-07-09 03:12 by Max'sKansasCity.

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: TeaAtThree ()
Date: July 9, 2011 03:12

You need to branch out to some different cultures, dude.

However, in the meantime, this is how you deal with an angry opposite. You use active listening. She talks, you mirror back what you hear her say, without judgment. Most relationship arguments can be settled by hearing what the other person says and letting them know you hear it.

A format for this is called the 3-1-1. She talks for 3 minutes, you tell her for one minute what you heard her say. She clarifies for one minute.

Then you get the three, and the process continues. It takes a LOT Of the pressure off the fight.

The bill is in the mail.

T@3

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: MingSubu ()
Date: July 9, 2011 03:14

4th engagement at only 29? Wow!!!

Tried talking to her, about it? Best of luck. Nothing sucks more than your girl acting squirrelly.

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: MadMax ()
Date: July 9, 2011 03:14

Good question Max. I've became a bit disillusioned the last cuple of nites, she says a couple of nasty things to me and expect me not to care, but I tell her that everything she says is of value to me and I respect every opinion of hers, but she acts more like me mum than the love I wanna marry. Like I learned to put my trousers in the drawer or the bag, so what? She don't let me talk from my heart and she gives the most ridiculous answers to me, like a 12-year old girl. Alright, I might have lived alone for 8 years and gotten comfortable but I don't act like a little school girl. Do you recognize this? Is she too old for me maybe?? We match GREAT in bed, we f%$#@ for hours but outside the bed it's kinda strange, seeing that she can't cope with my relaxed behaviour, I've told her about my life, I aint no Rock, I'm Roll, but I'm faithfull, loyal and I just want her. Don't wanna make no mistake about it. What's your opinion?

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: MadMax ()
Date: July 9, 2011 03:15

Nice one! Thanks for all the advices guys!!!! You are THE BEST!

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: MKjan ()
Date: July 9, 2011 03:24

Arent you allowed to have more than one wife.... a few more could push this one into the background a bit....or.....

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: MadMax ()
Date: July 9, 2011 03:26

Yeah I guess, but I kind of get turned on to just having the one, just got one heart. + I could never afford the next tour with 3 or 4 chicks mind!

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: CindyC ()
Date: July 9, 2011 03:29

If you're asking a group of strangers, then I think you already know the answer and just aren't ready to face it. But since you asked... get away from this girl as fast as you can! If she's acting like this now, imagine how bad she'll be in five years. People don't get better in relationships, they tend to get worse.

There's a million women out there, you'll find a better one, just stop rushing it! Don't dwell on marriage so much, focus your attention on a happy, HEALTHY relationship. Romance is nice, but you need to find someone you can live with day in-day out for years.

My final bit of advice, do not get engaged again till you have been through a full round of holidays together.

Wasn't looking too good, but I was feeling real well.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 2011-07-09 03:31 by CindyC.

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: MKjan ()
Date: July 9, 2011 03:29

Quote
MadMax
Yeah I guess, but I kind of get turned on to just having the one, just got one heart. + I could never afford the next tour with 3 or 4 chicks mind!

this makes sense to me...the part about the tour.

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: Max'sKansasCity ()
Date: July 9, 2011 03:44

Quote
CindyC
Romance is nice, but you need to find someone you can live with day in-day out for years.

My final bit of advice, do not get engaged again till you have been through a full round of holidays together.

That may be the best piece of marriage advice EVER given

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: CindyC ()
Date: July 9, 2011 03:54

Quote
Max'sKansasCity
My final bit of advice, do not get engaged again till you have been through a full round of holidays together.

That may be the best piece of marriage advice EVER given[/quote]

hehehe - thanks! It's a CindyC original (as far as I know). My sister used to be marriage-happy, so I had to use it a few times.

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: Max'sKansasCity ()
Date: July 9, 2011 04:04

Quote
CindyC
Quote
Max'sKansasCity
My final bit of advice, do not get engaged again till you have been through a full round of holidays together.

That may be the best piece of marriage advice EVER given

hehehe - thanks! It's a CindyC original (as far as I know). My sister used to be marriage-happy, so I had to use it a few times.

grinning smiley Everybody should have a sister like you. I am sure an opportunity will arise for this sage wisdom, and I will re-offer this, of course giving credit... "weeeeeeeelll I once heard a very smart saying.... from a very smart Rolling Stones fan...... and her advise was..."

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: CindyC ()
Date: July 9, 2011 04:09

Quote
Max'sKansasCity
"weeeeeeeelll I once heard a very smart saying.... from a very smart Rolling Stones fan...... and her advise was..."

I accept royalties as well!

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: Max'sKansasCity ()
Date: July 9, 2011 04:12

Quote
CindyC

I accept royalties as well!

But of course, I will send The Prince right over spinning smiley sticking its tongue out

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: virgil ()
Date: July 9, 2011 04:26

WOW max at the risk of sounding like a wise ass, Do you propose everytime you kiss a girl.

Luckily you have some history to look back on with the previous three encounters. examine the pros and cons of the other three , likes, dislikes What was right what was wrong etc. Compare the similarities with the current one and I think you should be able to make a sound Judgement.

Also a little tip to help you through any annoying conversation she has involved you in. Repeat the last word of every sentence she says. She will think you are really listening works everytime.

P.S, Congrats you your latest engagement

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: MadMax ()
Date: July 9, 2011 04:27

Nice one Cindy! Thing is, her mum and dad and her 2 brothers are GREAT and relaxed about life and spot on like me. But herself is like Brian stuck in a hospital in Lyon while Keef and Anita are in the Blue Lena or summat. The last one I had issues with the dad but the chick was great, but I know, I aint gonna marry th father.

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: 24FPS ()
Date: July 9, 2011 06:01

You can't win. Obviously you dig the sex, but that cools down. All you're left with is another human being. And if that human being doesn't make you feel safe and secure about yourself, how can you bring them close to you? Good luck.

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: Max'sKansasCity ()
Date: July 9, 2011 06:06

Quote
CindyC
Quote
Max'sKansasCity
"weeeeeeeelll I once heard a very smart saying.... from a very smart Rolling Stones fan...... and her advise was..."

I accept royalties as well!

OOOOOOhhhhhhh You said royalties

NOT Royalty

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: Rockman ()
Date: July 9, 2011 07:11

BUT, and it's a BIG but, she's more spoiled than anyone I ever met! Need yer help! We've had 3 rows 3 nites

She's just pushin' ya for some rough lovin' .... Strap her in a high chair and do ya thing boy ... YEAH Do your thing



ROCKMAN

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: 71Tele ()
Date: July 9, 2011 08:21

It's your fourth engagement at 29? Are you trying to set some sort of record? You sure she's the problem?

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: Stoneage ()
Date: July 9, 2011 08:28

If your chickens are mean spirited you really need a cock to straighten them out.

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: colonial ()
Date: July 9, 2011 08:58

MadMax..Get ya' self a nice British girl ya' cant go wrong..but keep away from those American girls they're to loud and unlady like..smoking smiley

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: Title5Take1 ()
Date: July 9, 2011 09:31

"But then very slowly, my nerves start to fray;
It's the little things, baby, that's what they say."
— Jagger/Richards

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: fiftyamp ()
Date: July 9, 2011 09:49

Quote
CindyC
If you're asking a group of strangers, then I think you already know the answer and just aren't ready to face it. But since you asked... get away from this girl as fast as you can! If she's acting like this now, imagine how bad she'll be in five years. People don't get better in relationships, they tend to get worse.

There's a million women out there, you'll find a better one, just stop rushing it! Don't dwell on marriage so much, focus your attention on a happy, HEALTHY relationship. Romance is nice, but you need to find someone you can live with day in-day out for years.

My final bit of advice, do not get engaged again till you have been through a full round of holidays together.

This!

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: Silver Dagger ()
Date: July 9, 2011 13:48

Quote
Max'sKansasCity
Quote
MadMax
maybe chicks tend to become like spoiled monsters into their 30's?
No,
Women are like wine, they get better with age...

What do you think you should do Max?

Old chickens make the best soup. smileys with beer

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: EddieByword ()
Date: July 9, 2011 13:56

WOT



Edited 3 time(s). Last edit at 2011-07-10 01:43 by EddieByword.

Re: OT:My chick's got a mean disposition. Need yer help.
Posted by: NICOS ()
Date: July 9, 2011 14:11

Quote
MadMax
Good question Max. I've became a bit disillusioned the last cuple of nites, she says a couple of nasty things to me and expect me not to care, but I tell her that everything she says is of value to me and I respect every opinion of hers, but she acts more like me mum than the love I wanna marry. Like I learned to put my trousers in the drawer or the bag, so what? She don't let me talk from my heart and she gives the most ridiculous answers to me, like a 12-year old girl. Alright, I might have lived alone for 8 years and gotten comfortable but I don't act like a little school girl. Do you recognize this? Is she too old for me maybe?? We match GREAT in bed, we f%$#@ for hours but outside the bed it's kinda strange, seeing that she can't cope with my relaxed behaviour, I've told her about my life, I aint no Rock, I'm Roll, but I'm faithfull, loyal and I just want her. Don't wanna make no mistake about it. What's your opinion?

I would suggest stay in bed

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