Using setlist.fm to search all 3 states: (You probably didn’t mean Syracuse or Atlantic City, but I included them for the sake of completeness.)
SEP 27 1981
The Rolling Stones at Rich Stadium, Orchard Park, NY, USA
NOV 5 1981
The Rolling Stones at Brendan Byrne Arena, East Rutherford, NJ, USA
NOV 6 1981
The Rolling Stones at Brendan Byrne Arena, East Rutherford, NJ, USA
NOV 7 1981
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