Re: The Stupid, "Their Too Old" Statement
Date: July 30, 2006 04:07
It's the most rude thing you'll ever hear said about a musician: "hang up the guitar, because quite frankly, you're too old." When it comes from fans and fellow musicians, i'm sure it stings even more.
They're throwing up arms for you to do an encore one minute, and the next they're drawing the curtain forcibly on you, because they see something callow in your image. It's a statement on the reverence we hold for those who have made strides and given us culture.
Look at the old rock and blues musicians - B.B. King, Chuck Berry. Though they may have aged, they still make it out to do a set for however long they can. But simply think - somewhere out there, in that audience, there's probably someone seeing them for the first time, learning something new - HEARING something they've never heard before. It's an experience you can't put into words or attempt to quantify in some fashion. Knowledge transcends age - if you were there for something, or created something, is the creative act diminished because your fingers are arthritic and can't quite hold down a chord? NO.
We owe it to all musicians who are getting on in their years to keep coming and hearing them, because they've given so much to us. Just as they (in a way) have an obligation to continue playing until their last breath, because they're making a contribution - they're changing lives.
I speak not only of the Stones, but of musicians in general. It's disparaging to hear remarks that people are even past their prime. Well who's to decide a "prime?" It's merely a permutation on a musical act that started and is now something new. The Rolling Stones of 2006 cannot be compared to The Rolling Stones of 1997, 1981, 1972 or any other year because they have fundamentally changed - stylistically, emotionally in the places their music comes from, and in various other ways.
Do we as "regular" people have a prime? I've never heard of anyone saying to another that they should give up on life because they're too old. It's ludicrious. You owe it to yourself to pursue your lifes ambition until you die - because it's what comes to define you - not completely, but is a large part of your defining characteristics.
I guess I'm coming from a place in my own heart, being an actor and understanding the mentality of a performer. Music is the voice of the soul, and musicians are the vessel through which that voice is materialized.
You count your blessings when musicians get on in their age, because who knows when their last song will play. When we ask our musicians to stop, we're saying that we no longer care about where we've come from, that we no longer care of our past and the strides we've made in music. That we no longer conscious of the music we grew up loving, and for the reason we loved it: because it made us FEEL a certain way. The music may have been transposed or put in a different key, and the musicians may play it differently - but it's cathartic: somehow, somewhere in your psyche, the feeling that you felt when you originally heard the song will come to surface, and you'll feel wonderful.
Music is timeless. Musicians may come and go, but their music will live on. I want the musicians to play their music because it keeps them going and because it will keep the flame of those songs alive while they're still played by the original musicians.
I guess I'll close this by saying, if your grandfather were a musician, and he played your favorite song when you were younger, and still does, though not as majestically or proficiently, would you say to him - you need to stop?
I wouldn't. The music needs to live on.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 2006-07-30 20:43 by Jumpin'JackFrash.