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I'm not an expert but being a paedophile is defined in wiki as '...a psychiatric disorder in persons who are 16 years of age or older typically characterized by a primary or exclusive sexual interest in prepubescent children'.
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GravityBoy
I'm just saying sex with under 16s is not intrinsically evil (a Catholic phrase) or unnatural.
13, 14 and 15 year olds can be be very attractive and anyone who says no is lying.
Please don't beat me for telling the truth. For the record I have never engaged in under age sex (although when I was underage myself it was my greatest desire).
Millions of under 16s "minors" are having sex right now.. I bet there are a few on this forum who did back then.
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GravityBoy
You don't understand intrinsic.
Mathijs.. I think there is 100% certainty that you are the descendent of people somewhere in your family tree who engaged in what you consider "intrinsically evil".
That's the way God/Nature made us.
Man has decided God/Nature was wrong.
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GravityBoy
You don't understand intrinsic.
Mathijs.. I think there is 100% certainty that you are the descendent of people somewhere in your family tree who engaged in what you consider "intrinsically evil".
That's the way God/Nature made us.
Man has decided God/Nature was wrong.
If you go even further down the line my family lived in a cave. But that's called evolution and development. Since we all live to be older than 45, since women's number one cause of death isn't at child birth anymore we don’t need to become pregnant at 15. We have learned that it is better for both men and women to first grow up and develop mentally and physically and to educate yourself before you start having sex and start having children.
And again: it is damaging for any person to have sex at 14 with a grown-up, especially since it will be under pressure in 99% of all cases.
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Mathijs
We have learned that it is better for both men and women to first grow up and develop mentally and physically and to educate yourself before you start having sex and start having children.
And again: it is damaging for any person to have sex at 14 with a grown-up, especially since it will be under pressure in 99% of all cases.
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treaclefingers
Makes you wonder how many other 'names' will come out of this investigation. It could get quite ugly by the looks of it.
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Green Lady
This reminds me of the recent MPs' expenses scandal in the UK - a culture where 'everybody does it' to some degree and nobody feels particularly guilty or ashamed, until there is a sea-change in attitudes and a media feeding frenzy - and then very few people are going to come out squeaky clean and smelling of roses.
Most young men who were in the music business in the 60s and 70s must have had the experience of being surrounded by willing girls, not that much younger than themselves, who wanted to be treated as women - even when they were not - and I'd guess that very many of them sometimes took what was on offer without checking ID. As we know from the Stones, some of them did so more often and more enthusiastically than others. John Peel and the Stones were in their mid-20s in 1966.
But there were also those who were predators - who went deliberately looking for the very young and vulnerable of both sexes. Jimmy Saville was already 40 in 1966, and most of the accusations against him date from later than that.
At the time, it was more or less accepted that these things went on, but the papers were more interested in drug scandals than under-age sex. In the current media climate, I'd guess that there will be a lot of Shocking Revelations to come about both the living and the dead, and big money on offer for anyone willing to dish the dirt. And once the British press gets into that sort of mood, there will be no distinction made between the guilty and the very guilty. This could get interesting.
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I'm not an expert but being a paedophile is defined in wiki as '...a psychiatric disorder in persons who are 16 years of age or older typically characterized by a primary or exclusive sexual interest in prepubescent children'.
Yes.
Prepubescent.
I don't think many people would argue with that.
The stories I heard about Jimmy Savile don't involve prepubescents (unlike the Gary Glitter stories).
Adolesecents past puberty are the grey area.
Laws are in place to protect those society considers mentally immature or vulnerable. But the question of capability, attractivness and desirability has already been decided by millions of years of evolution and a mass or hormones pumping through bodies.
The "age of consent" hasn't always been 16, there used to be no such thing once and it was decided between tribes and familes.
In medieval europe it was 12 to 14.. sometimes 7 (yes) was deemed old enough.
In early American colonial history (1600s) it was not unheard of for 9 year olds to be married, but 12 was generally considered acceptable (the age of puberty).
I don't think actual sex with prepubescents was encouraged though.
It's a very murky area.
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I'm not an expert but being a paedophile is defined in wiki as '...a psychiatric disorder in persons who are 16 years of age or older typically characterized by a primary or exclusive sexual interest in prepubescent children'.
Yes.
Prepubescent.
I don't think many people would argue with that.
The stories I heard about Jimmy Savile don't involve prepubescents (unlike the Gary Glitter stories).
Adolesecents past puberty are the grey area.
Laws are in place to protect those society considers mentally immature or vulnerable. But the question of capability, attractivness and desirability has already been decided by millions of years of evolution and a mass or hormones pumping through bodies.
The "age of consent" hasn't always been 16, there used to be no such thing once and it was decided between tribes and familes.
In medieval europe it was 12 to 14.. sometimes 7 (yes) was deemed old enough.
In early American colonial history (1600s) it was not unheard of for 9 year olds to be married, but 12 was generally considered acceptable (the age of puberty).
I don't think actual sex with prepubescents was encouraged though.
It's a very murky area.
Do you understand that forcing or manipulating someone into having sex with you is wrong no matter how old they are or what was socially acceptable in the ancient past?
There is a power play involved in these relationships involving adults and children and the children do not really 'consent'.
Yeah two 16 year olds getting it on is normal and usually both of them want it. This is not what is being talked about here. You're comparing apples and oranges.
You probably have no children yourself or you would understand there is really nothing murky at all in the matter being discussed.
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KeefintheNight82
If you look at a 15 year old and think she is hot, and know that they married at 9 in American colonial times, it really has jack shit to do with Jimmy Saville and what he allegedly did.
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Silver Dagger
These horrible stories make watching any Stones performances introduced by Saville such as Let's Spend The Night Together pretty much hard work.
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KeefintheNight82
Oh I see, you think most of the sex with Jimmy Saville was consentual (because they wanted to be close to a celebrity) and now the victims/nymphos want a piece of his estate.
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In fact, blaming the victim is quite backward and chauvinist.
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Silver Dagger
These horrible stories make watching any Stones performances introduced by Saville such as Let's Spend The Night Together pretty much hard work.
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GravityBoy
Yes. I am saying there are mitigating circumstances for Jimmy Saville (if what is alleged is true).
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GravityBoy
Yes. I am saying there are mitigating circumstances for Jimmy Saville (if what is alleged is true).
If he forced or manipulated anyone then he was wrong to do so, but I strongly suspect that was not always the case. Some people will do anything to connect with celebrity - if the man had been a fork lift driver he would have got very little sex (if any).
Also I notice... his £4 million estate has been frozen.
The scent of money is in the air.
Gary Glitter is a totally different matter as he was involved with prepubesants, something I've never seen Saville accused of.
Some recognition of reality is in order.
A law that says 15 years 363 days = bad and 16 years = good, doesn't change millions of years of human base instinct.
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GravityBoy
Yes. I am saying there are mitigating circumstances for Jimmy Saville (if what is alleged is true).
No there aren't.
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treaclefingers
When someone cuts me off in traffic my base instinct is to pull them out of the car and slap them. Somehow I manage to control myself.
I guess base instinct can be controlled by some people when necessary, huh?
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gimmelittledrink
Sex berween a 40+ year old man and an underage girl is by definition 'forced and manipulated.' And to imply that hundreds of girls may have willingly thrown themselves at this guy is beyond ludicrous.