I apologize for the lack of posts and posting requests, but...

I've been going through an emotional and physical roller coaster these last months; after a sickness of some 3 months, my father in law died last week and was cremated last Saturday.
He spent 2 thirds of those months in the hospital and the other third at home. Last week, they brought him to the hospital with an ambulance, it was his last time; during the following night, between 3 and 5 PM, he passed away in his sleep.

My wife Marianne is still suffering from her back surgery, and is in constant pain (sometimes she even can't lift a 1 liter brick of milk). They started a new therapy, to prepare her for a new surgery.
Needless to say that it was/is up to me to do everything. During my father in laws sickness, I had to drive my mother to the hospital every day he was there, I do the shopping and chores and so on for her and us.

And now with my father in laws passing, I have to take care of all the paperwork (and believe me, it's a lot).

As soon as life is back to normal, I'll come back here more often again.

Chris from Belgium





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Hi Chris, I'm sorry for your hard time. There are no words that can alleviate these moments, I have lived them too.
Strengthen and take care of yourself and your loved ones
All the best
Guido

I think everybody here on IORR is with you these days.
Focus on what is really important now and come back when everything is done.
All the best.

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falo01
I think everybody here on IORR is with you these days.

Yes we're with you. Hang on!

Take care Sir, best wishes and prayers to you and your family

take care sr

Sorry to hear this Chris,like a previous post I want to say we are ALL with you in this difficult time,take all the time you need & do everything you need to do.If for some reason you cant come back to iorr or shidoobee its OK because you have already reached "Legendary" status on both boards....Thinking of you in this difficult time...ken

Ik wens u veel sterkte gedurende deze dagen, innige deelneming.
Luc,

Always sad to hear these stories. I think Falo01 said it well.

Take care
Best regards

Chris, I wish you a lot of courage for this period of your life and I hope one day soon to find you here with new post, anyway thank you for all the sharing and help on IORR, take care of you and your family

May your family's burdens and sorrows be eased. Thanks for all you do.

Take care Chris, your family and relatives are prio 1, don’t forget

Condolences....take the time you need. We will all be here. Reach out to me or us if you need to...

We are all with you dear friend! Take care of yours and yourself! All the rest can wait!

Sorry to hear of your troubles Chris, here's hoping you get all the energy you need through these times to keep your heart alive.............take care, Eddie......

My condolences Chris.
Take the time you need and above all take enough time for you and your family, especially for Marianne.

All the best
Olaf

Some things are a lot more important than others. Your family comes first and there is no need for you to say "I'm sorry". I feel sorry for you and wish you all the strength you need to go through these hard times.

All the best for you and your family
Michael

All the best for you and your family

All the best Chris

Keep following the river...find the place where hard times ain’t gonna rule your mind no more...perseverance

My condolences and best wishes for you and you family in this hard time.

Take care Chris.
All The best for you and your familiy.

Juergen

Take care Chris

All the best for you and your family

All the best Chris.

Chris,

I'm sorry to hear all of the news. Wish you the best.

ExileStones

Also all the best from me, Chris!

Thanks all!!!!!

Chris from Belgium

Take care Chris.My condolences for you and all of your family.

Best wishes to you and your family!