Rock forgot one of its wildest front men. He’s got a story to tell.[
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Peter Wolf befriended music legends, married a movie star and led the J. Geils Band. His new memoir reminds us: He was there.
More than 20 years ago, Peter Wolf, the former front man of the J. Geils Band, drove across town to see his buddy David Bieber, a local media figure known for his equally nocturnal habits.
It was past midnight when they hopped into Wolf’s car, and he put on a song he had just finished for his next record. A wash of gritty guitars gave way to that voice, raspy and melodic, delivering the opening lines of “Nothing but the Wheel.”
Well I’m past the boulevard
Out here underneath the stars
They sat in silence as another singer joined in the second verse: Mick Jagger.
“Oh my God, Peter, you finally did it,” Bieber told him when it was done. “You pushed every button necessary.”
The song was a rootsy rocker in the spirit of “Exile on Main Street.” The Stones hook was the clincher. Wolf was about to launch a massive tour.
“Radio,” Bieber said, “is going to eat this up.”
Wolf pauses as he relates the conversation. We’re sitting in his kitchen, where his longtime partner, Nora O’Connor, has assembled a plate of cold cuts, cheese and olives. He’s a master storyteller, who’ll pull out yarns from his years fronting one of America’s most electrifying live bands and his huddles with everyone from Julia Child to Alfred Hitchcock. This story, about showing a new song to an old friend, takes place years later, past the MTV-era heights when a single named “Centerfold” became one of the biggest things in the world.
That Jagger duet, the one destined for radio?
“Never got played,” he says.
Long after his fame peaked — after the hits and the famous marriage and the arena tours — Wolf could be seen around Boston, a nighthawk about town. You would spot him dressed all in black near the back of a club as a band played. If inspired, he might hop onstage and sing an Otis Rush song. Then he would wander back out into the night.
The pandemic finally shut that down. At 79, he doesn’t want to get covid, and there’s also Grace, Nora’s younger sister. She’s an accomplished painter who has been battling amyotrophic lateral sclerosis, or ALS, which has compromised her immune system. They’ve grown closer as Grace has served as Wolf’s primary sounding board for his latest project, a memoir.
“Waiting on the Moon” (out this coming Tuesday) is not just another celebrity confessional. For Wolf, it might be a final shot in a career suspended during the Reagan era by circumstances that still pain him. Since splitting with the J. Geils Band, he’s made eight solo albums that have been praised by critics but played to a dwindling audience. He’s toured with a crack band, done Letterman and Fallon, but nothing’s broken through enough to cement a legacy. Could a book?
“I hope it does for Pete the equivalent of what ‘Just Kids’ did for Patti Smith, which is establish him as a writer and an observer and a raconteur,” says the writer Bill Flanagan, a friend. “Because he is all those things. But you know, what I really hope is that people will just get why Peter Wolf is important.”
Celebrities often wrestle with when to write the book. But Wolf’s delay tactics went beyond simple procrastination. The proof is in a black binder he sifts through at the kitchen table, typed notes that read like a dream dinner party guest list: Tennessee Williams, Aretha Franklin, Norman Rockwell, Jack Nicholson, Robert Lowell, Andy Warhol and Bob Dylan. All of these people played some part in his life.
How old is the binder? Wolf once took a proposed chapter to Harvard English literature professor William Alfred for review. Alfred died in 1999.
When Wolf finally signed a book deal in 2023, he tried to avoid writing about the two things he’s most famous for: his time with the J. Geils Band and his intense, five-year marriage to actress Faye Dunaway.
“I knew there were stories, if I included them, that could help sell more books, but I didn’t want it to be a kiss-and-tell,” Wolf says. “I wanted it to be about the privilege I had to meet the characters in my chapters, the hope of capturing and sharing something about them.”
Grace and another longtime friend, acclaimed Elvis biographer Peter Guralnick, nudged him to reconsider. It was a process. O’Connor would work with him on those chapters only in his house.
“I wanted Peter to feel safe,” she says in an email. “I also felt it would be cathartic for him. … Little by little he grew more secure.”
“He did not want to make it into a pop memoir, and he didn’t,” Guralnick says.
The Dunaway chapters offer a window into Hollywood’s last golden age, when the actress made “Chinatown” and “Network.” And the J. Geils Band section lays bare the bizarre and abrupt end of the band that, more than a decade after their first record, finally hit No. 1 at the dawn of the ’80s. It’s not an amiable split. Seth Justman, his longtime writing partner, ended up delivering the blow. Wolf named the chapter “Fratricide.”
“As novelist Graham Greene wrote, ‘Success is more dangerous than failure, the ripples break over a wider coastline,’” Wolf writes. “For the Geils band, success took its bite with razor sharp teeth, causing a divide between me and my bandmates. They chose to change course and follow a captain whose blind compass would soon have them smashed against the rocks.”
Peter Blankfield’s life of serendipity began just after World War II in the Bronx.
The book opens in 1957. His parents took him to see a French film, “He Who Must Die,” in an art house. When the lights went down, a couple rushed in, and the lady — wearing a mink coat over a lacy nightgown — sat next to him. She leaned her head onto his shoulder, and young Peter nodded off. Only when the film finished and she scrambled out did he recognize her. The chapter is titled “I Slept With Marilyn Monroe.”
Wolf went to high school in Harlem, regularly hitting the Apollo Theater and seeing James Brown and Jackie Wilson. In 1965, he saw Dylan play at the Forest Hills tennis stadium in Queens a month after his famous performance at the Newport Folk Festival. A year later, Wolf moved to Boston for art school. Naturally, his freshman-year roommate was David Lynch.
Wolf immersed himself in Boston’s ’60s music scene, hovering around Cambridge’s famed Club 47.
When Muddy Waters and his band drove up, Wolf was outside, asking if he could help with the amps. Sure, kid. When the band realized the folkie venue was dry, Wolf skipped out to buy James Cotton a pint of scotch. Before long, Waters and the guys were at “Little Wolf’s” apartment listening to records.
“I remember when we first met, he was already a font of information,” says the Rolling Stones’ Keith Richards. “He was about the only one that really knew soul music. He used to hang with Muddy Waters, which put us all in awe.”
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