Re: Keef...tailights fade and there ain't a dry eye in the house....
Date: June 15, 2007 20:15
I had to come out of hiding to say this:
The elegance of the words only masks the discontent that this poster obviously bears. It makes the contempt appear justified because it is well thought-out and articulate. But the only attempt I can make at trying to rationalize with IORR posters such as this is to say that the music must continue.
I'll relate a story I heard about Paul Newman. I'm an actor, and I consider Paul Newman to be one of the greats. He made a statement recently to the effect of saying that he was going to retire (albeit he is in his 80s), but the reason he quit was not his health, he's perfectly heatlhy for a man his age, or a desire to pursue other feats, but rather because he felt that he wasn't RELEVANT anymore.
Paul Newman had been made to feel as though he was not relevant anymore. Let that sink in for a few minutes.
A man who gave us such tremendous performances as in The Hustler, Hud, Cool Hand Luke, Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid, The Sting, The Verdict, and many others, has decided to stop his passion because he feels that audiences simply do not care about him.
My response to someone when they have those types of sentiments is this: don't give a shit about what the others think. Long ago, you made a decision to pursue your passion with unmitigated intensity and pride. Damn those who don't find you relevant, and shame on you for giving into their brutish narrow-mindedness.
Now, back to Keith.
The Rolling Stones, come this July 12th, will have been a functioning rock band going strong for 45 years.
The Rolling Stones of 2007 are not The Rolling Stones of 1972, 1969, 1975, 1965, 1990, or anywhere in-between. They cannot be compared in any manner to those previous tours because they are DIFFERENT - NOT BETTER, NOT WORSE: DIFFERENT.
And I love that.
Imagine if our favorite artists never progressed or changed. Imagine if On The Waterfront was Brando's pinnacle acheievement, and the best he was able to do was pull off performances that only matched that energy. I know I sure wouldn't want to imagine that.
We find that our capabilities change - inversely and conversely. I find, at 21 years of age, that I'm capable of more than I was at 20. I didn't think it worked that way. I know the day will come when I have to face up to mortality and realize that i can't do those same things. So I adapt, and cater my sensibilities as a performer and the knowledge that I possess to my "new strengths."
Say what you will, but please, spare us derogatory or insensitive descriptions of what you perceive to be happening.
As an observer, Keith is adapting to whatever has transpired in his life. He is learning the new rules of the game, and he's slowly but surely getting there.
BUT...
He hasn't given up on the game. He hasn't said it's the end, because that's not in Keith's nature. It is not Keith to say "I can't." It is in all our natures to say, "I'll try with what I've got."
And if that's not your way of living life, then give your ticket to someone else. Because it is a reality that AFTER 45 YEARS, The Rolling Stones are STILL GOING STRONG.
Children born in the 2000s even are able to view them in concert. And that's such a wonderful thing. The fact that you go to a concert and see all these young faces is mesmerizing. I'd rather have 30,000 un-initiated, uninformed 7- year-olds who are open to experiencing The Stones for the first time than have 30,000 spoiled, skeptical fans who've seen them upwards of 10 times.
Let's face it - we're spoiled. We've had The Stones all our lives, and when they don't meet the expectations that we've set for them, we feel let down. You may not admit to that, but secretly that's the case with everyone who has had a steady, constant supply of something, and the next day it's not at the level it was as you remember it.
I've only seen the Stones ONCE.
I've now had to bail on TWO occassions to see them in the past year.
And this is my perspective.
And you know what helped me deal with the fact that I couldn't see them - it was knowing that THEY WILL TOUR AGAIN. They will never stop. They'll be on stools in their 80s, playing an all acoustic set of blues numbers, and it will be BEAUTIFUL. I will be IN MY 40s then, and will have lived 40 years with the Stones in my life.
Keith may not play like we remember him doing. He may seem lost, vacant, or whatever you want to say to describe him.
But damn it, give him the opportunity to continue. To let him make music. I'm disgusted by people who feel that because you're old and can't perform as you used to you must give up.
What I say to those people is find an old relative who still pursues a passion, a hobby, plays music, or does something that is a part of their soul. If you feel as though you can go up to them, look them in the eye, and say "throw in the towel, old-tymer," then they can keep saying these things about The Stones.
When you reach the age they have, it's about doing it because you love it, and at that age you shouldn't care what people think. I will not. And at 21, I already don't.
I do what I do because it makes me happy, not because I'm trying to prove to the world I can. We don't progress when we look to others for approval.
It's disheartening to see so many people who want them to stop playing because THEY find it embarassing.
We owe it to them to continue. They've been around long enough, have contributed to the human experience as we know it, and has shaped our world as we know it, and have been there at countless moments in our lives as the soundtrack to major events in our development.
I wouldn't want to live in a world without The Stones. There should be more people who play until they die. I know I will.
And ENJOY IT WHILE YOU CAN, because God forbid that it should end. And when it does, you'll regret saying the things you did, because you'll want it even more.
I wish that you were able to have the perspective. I honestly wish that.
Keith should keep playing. It's his life. You can't ask someone to stop that.
Just a thought.