Yes for the song vote they show a graphic with a lot of songs appearing on the screen. A few times I have heard him mention "Can you hear the music" and "she smiled sweetly"
In Seattle Ronnie wore shirts with set lists on them. Very cool, I wouldn’t be surprised if he were involved with the design of songs during the fans choice. And yes Jagger will mention songs, I think he referenced Gomper and Turd amongst others.
"teasing" Mick knows how to string us along. We won't get to hear those songs live, but as it's been pointed out we're lucky to have them at all. I suppose in a perfect world they would cater to their fan base. Luckily I can still "hear the music".