Words always seem so limiting when trying to express support in a sad situation. I pray that the good "vibes" that so many are sending your way will help you through your time of grief.
adotulipson, I am so sorry for your loss. I'm sure you will miss her and your conversations very much. It made me smile to hear how she liked to say she was younger than Mick -- she sounds nice and like she had a good sense of humor.
Sincere sympathies for what you're going through, swiss